Are things going stale in the bedroom? Break away from the routines that rule your everyday life and book a much-needed sex vacation with your sweetheart!

The U.S. Travel Association released a statement saying that couples who take regular trips together report increased satisfaction and romance. Whether you want to take the findings seriously or not, there is really no harm in taking a vacation for sex with your sweetheart to reignite the flames of passion.

The depressing thing about real life is that we are so busy that we barely have time to pay attention to the important things in life. Work, chores, children—these stressors get in the way of having time for just you and your partner.

Time off from the real world is desperately needed sometimes. What better way to amp up your love life than by indulging in a sexy couple’s retreat? You will be surprised at how much a vacation focused on sex can benefit your love life. [Read: 32 fun ideas to build and grow intimacy in a relationship and feel more loved]

Planning a trip away is not as difficult as you think. Whether you keep it local or head off to an exotic destination, go somewhere that will offer you peace, tranquility, and a lot of sex!

Benefits of going on a romantic sex vacation

If you’re wondering exactly why a sex vacation would be good for your relationship, here are the top 10 benefits it will give you.

1. Refresh your sex life

The whole point of taking a sex vacation is to indulge in a myriad of sexual activities with your partner. There is no denying that most long-term couples complain of having a sex life that dwindles to nonexistence after a couple of years.

Take the chance to act and feel like teens again on this sexual escapade. Experiment with positions, costumes, toys, body parts, locations, and anything else you can think of. You will love this refreshing spin on your conventional sex life.

2. Rediscover each other

This applies to rediscovering your partner, both mentally and physically. Savor every moment you have with your loved one, whether getting it on between the sheets or enjoying cheerful banter over a candlelight dinner.

Spending time together somewhere new will be sure to invigorate the dullness of a long-term relationship, hence the importance of taking a holiday that focuses on the two of you. [Read: Spark in a relationship – 20 reasons why it’s gone and how to bring it back]

3. Better communication

Years together have probably taught you all that you need to know about each other and there is nothing new left to discover. More often than not, there is no need to put into words how you feel as your partner will find it second nature to just know.

As sweet as this is, you need to start speaking up and communicating more. Taking a sexual holiday together will give you the chance to do just that.

Improve your communication by speaking more, touching more, and playing more. [Read: 50 best relationship topics and things to talk about in a relationship]

4. A new adventure together

A sex vacation is certainly an adventure to be thoroughly enjoyed and devoured with your partner. By partaking in this delightful sexual escapade, you are chalking up points for your personal sexual history book.

Doing this new and fun activity together will give you and your loved one the chance to relive the much-yearned-for days of your youth when you were madly and passionately in love with each other.

5. Quality time alone

The daily grind is not a recipe for passion and sexual intrigue.

Early mornings, bad traffic, loud bosses, stressful projects, whiny kids, and a messy home are not delicious ingredients for a sexed-up time. You need to spend some time away from it all if you want to rejuvenate your relationship with your partner.

[Read: How to reduce stress – 17 fastest hacks to a calmer and happier life]

By focusing on rebuilding intimacy, you will recreate the closeness that you felt with your partner during the early stages of the relationship where sex, great conversation, and excitement dominated everything. You will be surprised at how important quality time alone is for a couple.

6. Heighten your senses

When you remove all the icky bits that make reality what it is, you are left with a refreshing calmness unlike any other.

Breathe in the crisp mountain air of the Alps, explore the underwater world from your water chalet in the Maldives, and swim naked under the stars in your private Balinese pool.

Your senses will be heightened tenfold when you have nothing else to worry about except for you and your partner having a good time together.

This will increase your libido and ensure that you have a smooth sailing sex-fueled trip together. [Read: Use your senses to make your lovemaking sexier]

7. Relaxed atmosphere

A sexual vacation will give both of you the chance to bask in a relaxed atmosphere, allowing both of you to set aside differences while focusing on each other and having a good time.

Most of the time, couples tend to leave petty disagreements and fights behind the moment they arrive at their dream holiday destination.

Everyone knows that there is really no point in ruining a trip that you have already splurged thousands on, so both of you will have fun even if it is by default.

8. Focus on ‘us’

The whole point of taking a sex vacation is so you can flirt with your significant other. Shower your loved one with a hundred percent of your attention during your beautiful holiday together.

You will connect not just on a physical level, but on a mental and spiritual one as well. This will allow both of you to focus on ‘us.’ [Read: 31 communication exercises & games for couples and secrets to feel closer]

9. Positive change

When you swap your negative and stressful environment out for one that is calm and positive, it will affect every aspect of your life including your relationship with your partner.

And when you are in a calm and beautiful place with nothing on your mind but connecting with your loved one, you will feel more open and in tune with each other. This invites positivity that will follow you all the way home. [Read: 45 secrets to be more positive and fill your mind with positive emotions 24/7]

10. Revitalize playtime

The final benefit to heading off on a sex vacation with your partner is that the trip will undoubtedly revitalize playtime.

You no longer have to keep it down so you don’t wake the kids. No more fearing that you’ll get semen on the sheets. And no more making love on your boring, squeaky bed.

You’ll finally have the chance to rejuvenate playtime and give it a brand-new look and feel. This is perfect for couples who are so caught up in daily life that they forget to keep things romantic and sexual with their partner. [Read: 19 foreplay sex games for couples to get naughty and horny in minutes]

A few considerations for choosing your destination

Not all vacation spots are ideal for a sex vacation. Some places have too many distractions, while others don’t really have the right mood in place.

Here are the things you should keep in mind when making your pick. [Read: 44 fun honeymoon ideas & destinations to create romantic memories for life]

1. Avoid busy spots

Don’t leave your bustling hometown of Chicago to spend your sex vacation in New York. Beach and mountain vacations are perfect for a couple’s retreat as they will offer both of you the chance to focus on each other and not be distracted by all the exhausting shopping and mandatory sightseeing that comes with a big-city vacation.

2. Ensure that the place is NOT child-friendly

Stay away from the myriad of chain hotel options and opt for sexy boutique hotels instead. There are many beautiful resorts peppered around the world that reserve vast sections of the hotel for guests with no kids.

Some don’t even allow children under the age of 12 on the premises. Even if you have to pay a little more, just go for it. You don’t want your sexy beach time ruined by a bunch of wailing kids. [Read: Most romantic vacation spots for couples]

3. Inform the resort beforehand

For that added touch of romance, call the resort up once you have made a booking and inform them that you are on your second honeymoon.

Most top-notch places will romanticize the trip to include rose petals in the tub, a bottle of welcome champagne, and other lovely details that will be sure to give your sex vacation a nudge in the right direction.

4. Remember to leave the kids at home!

The last thing you want is to have to deal with a couple of hungry and cranky 4-year-olds whilst nursing a raging hangover from the three bottles of pink champagne you polished off in the tub together last night. Once you have all that in the bag, kick back and enjoy your sex-fueled trip.

Vacation sex tips to have a wild time

Now that you’ve chosen the perfect location and considered the benefits of vacation sex, it’s time to get into the good stuff.

Vacation sex is valuable time spent with your partner, so here are a few tips to make the best of your spicy getaway together:

1. Take your time

Vacations are a lot more than sex. You might spend your day on sightseeing tours or walking the city for hours. So if you’ve been busy all day, give yourself time to rest before having vacation sex.

Be realistic with how you’re feeling and don’t rush into vacation sex if you’re exhausted from the day’s adventure. Being burnt out and jumping straight into sex can decrease the quality of the experience.

And at the same time…

2. Have sex whenever the mood strikes

The best part about getaways with your partner is that it’s an opportunity to live with a flexible schedule and do what you want, whenever you want.

You should definitely take advantage of this when it comes to sex! If you’re feeling steamy, take a detour from your adventure and go at it. After all, why not? [Read: 46 sizzling sex life secrets to spice up your bedroom & leave you horny 24/7]

3. Avoid sunburns

If your sexy getaway location includes a lot of sun, don’t forget to apply a generous amount of sunscreen!

There is nothing that kills vacation sex on the beach like having painful and sensitive skin. Not to mention, your acrobatics in bed might be cut short if you or your partner are unable to even touch each other!

4. Turn your electronics off

There is nothing that kills the mood faster than worrying about work emails or texts from your parents. So turn off your phone, laptop, work phone, or whatever electronics you have.

Or better yet, keep them stored in another room. Don’t let your devices interrupt your time with your partner.

5. Bring your toys

Just because you’re leaving your responsibilities at home doesn’t mean you have to leave your toys there too! Sex toys are a great way for partners to explore new things about each other and really turn up the heat.

Plus, if you know that you *or your partner* use vibrators to climax, why would you leave that gem at home? Just make sure you’re bringing toys that can pass through an airport security check! [Read: 15 common types of sex toys all singles and couples must know about]

6. Get reacquainted with your body

Our busy lives often make us put our physical and emotional health last on the priority list. But with the stress of life behind you, vacations are the best way to become in tune with your mind and body again. So, use the opportunity to really give yourself some love.

Masturbation has so many health benefits that you might have missed out on while your mind was busy at home.

So before you jump into vacation sex with your partner, give yourself a little attention, too. Get reacquainted with your body, your favorite erogenous zones, and relearn where and how you like to be touched.

7. Remember the lube

Your lube may be stored in your nightstand at home, but not at your hotel! So don’t forget to plan ahead of time for your lubrication needs.

Not only does lube protect your skin from any painful friction, but it also makes for a slippery and fun time. [Read: How to use lube to liven up your sex life instantly]

8. Try new, playful moves

A sex vacation is the perfect time to try out new things in bed that you’ve never done before. Maybe your getaway location makes for the perfect roleplay session. Or maybe you’ve always wanted to have sex outdoors.

Whatever it may be, try new and playful moods to spice up your sex vacation. It’s a time to let go and be free from whatever life you left at home. And remember to take advantage of *all* of the hotel room furniture.

9. Don’t count how many times you’ve done it

There isn’t a minimum or maximum amount of times you can have vacation sex. Sure, it is a great opportunity to have a lot of sex, but setting a certain expectation will only make it harder to have sex.

So, don’t count how many times you do it. Counting will only pressure you and your partner to have more or less sex, which will surely kill the mood. [Read: Average time for sex – how long should sex last vs. how long we really last]

10. Manage your expectations

A retreat with your partner where you can have all the sex you want… Now that sounds like a dream! But it isn’t a dream, it’s reality. And in reality, things can get in the way.

Manage your expectations so you don’t put too much pressure on yourself or your partner if things take a turn.

Sunburns, hangovers, UTIs, even just plain exhaustion—many realistic things might happen on your sex vacation that you should be prepared for. If you have less sex than you imagined, talk to your partner calmly and be empathetic.

11. Plan for unsexy things

Medication, contraceptives, sanitary products, these are all things you should prepare for before your trip.

Although these items may be readily available to you in your town or country, that might not be the case when you travel to a new destination.

12. Let yourself go

Vacations are the perfect place to have sex because the stressors from your home life don’t vacation with you. So take advantage of this relaxing environment and really let your stress go.

Make the most of the moment you have to be alone with your partner. It’s just you and them, nothing else. Allow yourself to be the version of yourself that you want to be.

There is no judgment, no work, no kids, no stress—just you and your partner! [Read: 29 best sex secrets to have better sex & enjoy it more every single time!]

Vacation sex positions that are a must-try

Vacations are a great way to try new things in bed if your sex life has become a little stale.

The naturally relaxing atmosphere will inspire you and your partner to experiment with new things. Here are a few playful positions for you to try on your vacation.

1. Face-off

This position is usually done in a chair, on a sofa, or whatever seating options are available in your hotel room. The penetrating partner sits down while the receiving partner sits on their lap and straddles them.

This position is great for face-to-face contact, but can also be switched up by facing away. [Read: 17 most intimate sex positions & tips to feel romantic while making love]

2. Standing

Indoors, outdoors, against a wall, or while holding onto a balcony railing, the standing position is great for vacation sex because it’s very versatile.

Simply stand with your feet hip-width apart and have the penetrating partner enter the receiving partner while offering physical support. The receiving partner can even wrap their leg around the waist of the penetrating partner for support.

3. Doggy-style

Have the receiving partner on their hands and knees while the penetrating partner enters them from behind on their feet or knees.

This can be done on almost any hotel furniture so give it a shot. Even take advantage of your hotel room mirrors and try doggy-style in front of one!

If this is your first time introducing toys to the mix, doggy-style is a great position to try it in. Have him wear a vibrating cock ring, or use a vibrator on her from behind *or she can hold it on herself if she wishes*. [Read: Ways to make doggy style your favorite sex position]

4. Sex in the water

If you’ve been dying to try sex in a bathtub, pool, or the ocean, then a sex vacation is the perfect time to do it. However, you will need to take measures to ensure that there aren’t people around and that you have the right kind of lube.

Water is not lube. In fact, water washes away your natural lubrication and makes sex even more difficult.

This is why having a water-resistant lubricant, like silicone-based lube, is important. Once you have the right kind of privacy and lube, sex in the water is limitless.

[Read: Sex on the beach – the couple’s guide to have naughty, kinky fun by the water]

Sex vacations are an intimate experience that will bring you and your partner closer, spiritually and physically. Make the most of your vacation by following these tips and by letting yourself have fun!

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